Driving Solo


Where one might grow up admiring their father from between their arms, Aracely Ruiz saw her father through bars on Easter between 11am to 3pm; the visitation hours of the prison nearby.

Upon being released from his strenuous sentence, Ruiz was under the impression of starting a strong relationship with her father. As time passed, however, Ruiz came to the realization that this would not be the case.

“October 18, 2014 was the day I thought things would change. It was the first time in ten years that I had seem [my dad] in something other than grey sweats and a tank top. He got a job and everything was looking up for me,” Ruiz said. “Until he found himself a girlfriend – a new family. It was as if he forgot he had kids of his own; she became the only priority in his life.”

Ruiz found that, as time passed, her father only became more distant and less of a dad.

“He would flip out if I even asked for five dollars to buy a Coaster ticket,” Ruiz said. “It was like I still didn’t have a dad in my life… again.”

At this time, Ruiz began to resent her father for the endless neglection she felt.

“He didn’t care about me so I wantes nothing to do with him,” Ruiz said. “I still don’t and that’s really sad to realize.”

Ruiz knew that to help herself cope, being doleful was not the answer. This conclusion allowed Ruiz to push herself to do something that would better her confidence.

“I always said I wanted my own car; but it’s really so much more that,” Ruiz said. “I wanted to do something for myself, to show that I didn’t need a father to do things for me.”

Where most find themselves alongside their parents once entering the world of adulthood, Ruiz found herself proud of the life she has laid out for herself.

“I’m only 18 years old and I provide myself with what I need all on my own,” Ruiz said. “I have my own job now and am enrolled in college; both of which I drive myself to in my own lil’ PT Cruiser… purchased without my father’s paycheck.”

Ruiz explains that one should not be dependant on someone else for their own success.

“No one but yourself should determine how far you go in life. If you want to make something out of yourself, you need to be the one to do it. You. You are strong enough to rely on yourself,” Ruiz said. “God knows I am.”


Around the World


Growing up, Kaleigh Schone lived the reverie of many. Grateful for the valor of Spencer Schone, a dedicated member of the Navy since 2000, Schone can recall her multifarious travels – Including Japan, Italy and Virginia – and places once called “home”. Now settled in Carlsbad, California, Schone can consider herself widely cultured with a bevy of memories to reflect on.

“I got to see different cultures and get to experience a lot of things that other people haven’t,” Schone said.

At the ripe age of three, Schone found herself in Naples, Italy. While her memories are truncated, she can reminisce on her childhood in Okinawa, Japan. As any nine year old would, Schone enjoyed her capricious visits in Pineapple Park with her family.

“[Pineapple Park] is such a cool place, I love it,” Schone said.

Continuously grateful for her situation, Kaleigh shares her experiences with others while expressing her love for each place she has previously adapted to.

“I would be happy to go back,” Schone said.

Admittedly, Schone expresses the lifestyle she prefers; which is at home, in Carlsbad, California.

“I like it here most, It feels like home,” Schone said.

When it comes to traveling, many go abroad during the peak of their life; Kaleigh Schone gathered these memories that would allow her to live with them while still growing up. Being educated on the world around her, Schone can rely on her knowledge to allow her to grow into a bright woman with a bright future.